Tuesday, September 16, 2014

Stitch Fix #3: A big let down!

Ugh!  Just when I thought Stitch Fix was on the right track, I get another bummer of a Fix.

Now, on one hand, they really are improving by sending me pieces that are a little more "me."  They're showing me that they're listening, which is GREAT.  When I opened my Stitch Fix today, I was super excited by the color scheme AND the little outfit cards they give you.

Mustard, a really pretty blue, a pair of pants that I requested, AND a statement necklace? Now we're talking!  ...or so I thought.  I started throwing things on...

Fun2Fun Damon Sheer Detail Key-Hole Blouse - $44

"I noticed that you like yellow tones, so I am sending you [this top] in mustard..." says my stylist, Dan-Thy.

Yeah.  This top might have worked if I didn't have boobs and was three inches shorter, but this was unwearable.  I was expecting as much, though, because I had peeked at someone else's September Fix and they had reported this shirt ran way small.  (Another downside was that it was so sheer that you could see my entire bra...no thank you.)

If this had been longer and more loose up top, I would have loved this.  Verdict? Sent back!

Skies are Blue Halli 3/4 Sleeve Lined Blazer - $78

I wasn't at all sure that I needed another blazer, although the blue was pretty, so I gave it a shot.  As soon as I put it on I decided I loved it...and look how great it looks with the mustard top!  The material was so lightweight and it was super comfortable even though it was lined.  It looked great in the front...super flattering and the perfect length, and then I turned around and...
...oh. Cue Chris Farley singing "Fat Guy in a Little Coat" and...well, you get the idea. The blazer was roomy enough about the shoulders, but I had visions of splitting the back of this as I reached for something.  And at the price point of $78, that's an expensive embarrassing moment.  Verdict? Sent back!

Brixton Ivy Heidi Scallop Hem Pencil Skirt - $64

I've never owned anything "scalloped" so I gave this a try.  It had pockets, which I LOVED, and they were big and roomy, which women's pockets never are.  This blue matched the blue of the blazer perfectly.  It would have been a nice work outfit, if I was the kind of girl who wore matching blazers and skirts.  But...I couldn't zip the back zipper all the way.  Womp, womp.  Verdict? Sent back!  (I probably would have sent it back even if it DID zip all the way.)

Pixley Lenora Square Gem Bib Necklace - $42
I've been asking Stitch Fix for a "statement necklace" since day one.  Like, specifically.  I finally gave in bought my own, and took any mention of "statement necklace" out of my letters to my stylist...and what do I get?  Oh.  A statement necklace.  Well.  Better late than never, I guess.

I'm feeling "meh" at best about this necklace.  The colors are a little too muted.  I'm still on the fence about it, but I'm leaning towards no.

Kut From the Kloth Danny 5-Pocket Knit Pant - $68

(Yes, I'm using the same photo like a cheater.)

I'm actually really upset about this, to the point that I think I'm going to send Stitch Fix an email about it.  I fell in love with my burgundy Kut From the Kloth pants from my last Fix, so I specifically requested more.  I would have loved them in a fall color like dark green or mustard,  but all they had was gray so they sent me that, with a note that they could send them in black as well.  This was an EASY sale--I asked for these pants and I got them.  It should have been an easy sale, anyway...

As you can see here, these are BOTH "Jennifer Ultra Skinny Size 12."  (For some reason, Stitch Fix calls them "Danny," but I assure you they are the same exact pants.

What I don't understand is why the burgundy pants fit AWESOME, and the gray pants I can't even button! I'm not even joking, I would have needed probably an extra four inches of material in the waistband in order to button them. Same exact size, same exact cut...what's up with that?  Are they a mislabeled 10, or are the burgundy pants a mislabeled 14?  Either way, I'm disappointed that I can't just say "hey, send me another pair of pants in a different color!" and get a pair of pants that fit.  Logically, they should both fit.

I was going to give Stitch Fix three chances to get things right, but this has been my third fix and I'm still not sure how I feel about them.  This Fix totally struck out fit-wise...there was not a single piece that fit well enough to keep.  Not to mention, someone from Stitch Fix promised me a refund when I returned the earrings with my last Fix, and that's the last I heard of it.  I DID get a credit (which they also promised) but, I didn't get the refund.  I guess it's time to fire off an email...they seemed eager to set things right last time, so I hope they will again.

As usual, if you want to try out Stitch Fix for yourself, feel free to sign up using my referral link

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Clearing the air about PCOS and Infertility.

The other day, HelloGiggles posted an essay of mine... "What No One Told Me About Taking a Fertility Test."

You may have read it...in fact, that might be the reason you found my blog in the first place. In that case, hello!

I've received a TON of feedback from readers around the world, and it tends to fall into two categories: people thanking me for starting the conversation about this important (and sometimes taboo) topic, and people who are disappointed that my article didn't represent PCOS and/or infertility correctly.

Here's the thing: This essay was based on my personal experience only. I only wrote about what I had been told by medical professionals, but as it turns out, I had some misinformation.  And perpetuating misinformation, even in a situation such as this, can be damaging.  Because of this, I'd like to take a minute and clear up some key points:

  • Fertility cannot be truly determined based on one blood test.  Many women take hundreds of tests over the course of years.  My experience is not typical of your average woman who is faced with possible infertility. And, just because this one test came back with normal levels, it doesn't mean I won't have issues further down the line. There are probably a million different factors that influence fertility--the AMH test only tests for ovarian reserve. If you notice, I don't use definitive language in my essay: I will "presumably" be able to conceive.
  • But wait, the AMH test can show high levels in someone with PCOS. Yes. But the point isn't that I have a high amount of eggs--the point is I have a normal amount of eggs. This is good news.
  • Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS) does not always equal trouble with fertility, as you can read here. I was told by multiple doctors that because I 'most likely' had PCOS and that I would 'most likely' not be able to have children. A friend of mine was told the same thing. I had no idea (until HelloGiggles readers came forward) that this wasn't always true.
  • Why weren't the answers doctors gave me more definitive? I went to a small clinic that will remain unnamed. They specialized in mostly pap smears, STD testing, and birth control. They were not equipped to deal with fertility issues. They told me I could go to a different doctor for a more definitive test, but they said it wouldn't make much of a difference because they would simply put me on birth control for my PCOS--which is what the clinic was already doing. At the time, the AMH test did not exist.
  • Your doctor meant you "wouldn't be able to get pregnant on your own." Stop making your doctor out to be an idiot. If that is what my doctor--my multiple doctors--had meant, that is what they should have said. How am I supposed to infer their meaning? Also, as I mentioned, this was over seven years ago. Maybe less was known about PCOS then, which is why they told me that? I'm not making anyone out to be anything--I'm simply relaying MY experience of what happened to YOU, the reader. If you don't like it, I apologize, but it is sincere.

For more information about PCOS, check out this fact sheet at womenshealth.gov.
For more information about infertility, infertility treatments, and testing, check out this page at MedlinePlus.
For more information about AMH testing, which is the specific test I had done, check out this article over at advancedfertility.com.
And for information on In Vitro Fertilization, check out this page at americanpregnancy.org.

Readers, thank you for challenging me on this important topic and giving me a chance to clear the air.  Other readers have expressed interest in reading more stories like this, and I hope that if you have a story about infertility to share, that you won't hesitate to submit it.

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Stitch Fix #2!

After my first Stitch Fix (which was,  if you'll recall, disappointing!) the Stitch Fix team was cool enough to reach out to me, apologize, offer me a credit, and listen to my (extensive!) feedback in an attempt to set things right.

I was really nervous about my second fix. Would they hit the nail on the head? Were they really listening?  When I looked up the names of my pieces (you can snoop a little while the package is en route, but you can't see exact details like fabric type and color) I was even more nervous.  Sure, the word "chevron" was gone, but this time "crochet" was used (twice, again!) in its place.  I held my breath.

When my Fix arrived, I ripped it open so quickly that I wasn't even able to take pictures of the unwrapping process.  Needless to say, the color palette was spot-on this time.  Where last time the colors I got were white, teal, bright blue, and light gray, this time I was sent burgundy, brown, bone, dark gray, and navy and white striped.  All colors I love...much more my style.

It was dark when I took my photos, so unfortunately they came out even worse than last time.  I really need to enlist Shaun's help for these, but I get too impatient!

Here's what was in my Fix:

Under Skies Janae Sleeveless Crochet Front Maxi Dress - $78

The color of this dress was a medium brown, and it was very pretty. The material was also very nice and soft, but ultimately I just didn't like how the elastic waist hit me, which was the same problem I had with the last maxi dress they sent me. It just wasn't flattering.  I actually think it looks much better in this photo than it did it real life.

Verdict: Sent back.

Alternative Apparel Silverman Raglan Striped Cotton Knit Shirt - $34

This was a nice striped shirt that I wanted to like. It was loose in the stomach (which is important since stripes show every imperfection and my stomach is my trouble area) but the problem was, the shirt was just huge overall.  The sleeves hid my hands and the waistband hit below the butt.  It was a size large but definitely fit more like a 2XL would!  I don't mind oversized shirts, but this one was pretty shapeless. 

Verdict: Sent back.

Kensie Spacey Mixed Material Short Sleeve Top - $58

I liked the front part of this top (a nice dark grey jersey cotton) but the back part was both a strange fabric (polyester maybe?) and see-through.  This is the second "mixed material" shirt I've been sent, and so far I'm not a fan. I did like that it had a high-low hem, though.

Verdict: Sent back.

Honey Punch Wakeman Crochet Open Cardigan - $54

I liked the color of this one, but I couldn't see myself wearing an all-over crochet pattern.  It felt too hippie and old lady all in one.  Not my thing.

Verdict: Sent back.

Kut From The Kloth Danny 5-Pocket Knit Pants - $68

I don't think these are listed correctly, as I'm pretty sure they had a girls name on the tag (Jennifer, maybe? Not Danny.) but still...these are perfect.  Sure, they look exactly like another pair of pants I have, but they're better because they actually have some stretch to them and are comfortable! These babies look like nice work pants but feel like yoga pants. I'm in love!

Verdict: Happily kept.

So, all in all, I'm not in LOVE with Stitch Fix yet, but this Fix was much more my style and proved they actually looked at my boards and read my notes. I feel like we're on the right track, and hopefully we can get to a point where I'm smitten over a whole fix.  I've left the stylist some additional notes and suggestions...we'll see!  I do believe that it's probably a lot easier to style for me in the fall because my favorite colors are all fall-like (burgundy, mustard/goldenrod, emerald, etc) and my favorite styles seem to be fall styles, too.

Anyway, as usual, if you'd like to try out Stitch Fix for yourself, please use my referral link to sign up! 

Thursday, July 31, 2014

Pinterest Attempt: Vegan Ice Cream & Ice Cream in a bag

Since I don't own an ice cream maker, this Pinterest Attempt was actually a combination of two different Pins:

Vegan Ice Cream from Handle the Heat
(pictures belong to the respective blog owners--mine didn't turn out pretty enough for photos!)

For ingredients, I used another recipe I had found (and lost after taking a screenshot!) for mint chocolate chip ice cream.  I added peppermint extract, maple syrup for sweetener, and vegan dark chocolate chips.

All in all, this was a fail.  I think it might have worked better if I had used a food processor and sugar instead of maple syrup...as it was, it took forever for the ice cream to harden (much longer than the 5 minutes of shaking the Pin called for) and I got frustrated and stuck the whole thing in the freezer.

Besides that, the taste just wasn't quite what I was looking for.  I'm well aware that vegan ice cream probably won't be as tasty as regular ice cream, but I think the combination of coconut milk and mint was a bad choice.  It all tasted a bit like toothpaste.

Verdict: Another Pinterest fail!  This hasn't been a good month for Pinterest attempts...have you had any luck with yours?

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Pinterest Attempt: Banana Bread


For some reason, maybe it's the weather, but our bananas have been going "bad" (read: too ripe) before we can consume them lately.

No biggie, I found a recipe for banana bread and decided I'd whip up a batch and bring it to work to share.

Well, this was a comedy of errors before it even got started.  First, I pulled out all the ingredients and started getting everything ready, only to realize the recipe called for baking SODA and all I had in the house was baking powder.


So I put everything away, and the next day I picked up some baking soda on the way home and pulled everything out again.

But when I poured out the flour, I quickly realized that this wasn't going to work.  There was a little weevil in the flour!  I guess that happens with wheat-based items that have been sitting around for a little while.  (Lesson learned: I'm going to buy a sealable jar for my flour!)

So...everything got put away again and the next day I picked up some new flour on my way home.

FINALLY, yesterday, I pulled everything out and got to work.  I used this recipe that I found on Pinterest, which called for applesauce and honey instead of oil and sugar, which I thought was perfect since I'm always watching my fat intake and I'll take all the help I can get!

This is what the bread looked like in the Pinterest recipe:

Unfortunately, I cannot recommend this recipe.  The banana bread baked up all pretty (I wish I had taken a picture of it, it baked up TALL with a nice round top) but the inside NEVER cooked, and the top eventually caved in.

Honestly, the recipe said to cook the batter for "60 to 65 minutes" and I must have kept that damn thing in the oven for 120 minutes.  Sure, the outside cooked, but the inside?  Nope.  Damn.

Pinterest fail!

Friday, July 25, 2014

Stitch Fix Update: Color me impressed!

After airing my grievances on my blog the other day, I received a really nice email from Stitch Fix this morning.

They must have one KILLER PR team, because they found my blog post and referenced it in the letter!  They were very apologetic and offered to give me a credit on my next styling fee, and they asked me some questions about my style so they could better choose my items in the future.

I copied them the same very specific instructions I had replied to my original fix with, and I pinned some new things to my Pinterest board...so, we'll see! I hope they can really wow me with the second box and keep me around!  I'll definitely keep everyone updated when my next Fix arrives in August.

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

My First Stitch Fix!

I was super super excited to get my first Stitch Fix.  I had to wait THREE months to get it, and I was freaking out while I waited.  I tried not to buy anything new, as I had specifically asked for a maxi dress and a statement necklace, and I was holding out for those!

My Stitch Fix was delivered today. My curiosity got the better of me and I snuck a peek at the Stitch Fix site while I was at work and realized that I could see the names of the articles I had been sent, but not a photo.

I held my breath when I saw the words "geometric" and the word "chevron."  Hold up...there it is again..."chevron."  Chevron twice?  Really?

The Stitch Fix stylists are supposed to look at your Pinterest boards to get a feel for your personal style, so I tried to push the bad thoughts from my mind.  "They're professionals," I told myself.  "They know what they're doing."

And then I came home...to this:

If you know me at all, you'll notice right away that that specific color palette is NOT my style...not to mention, I don't really care for patterns.  But, okay.  This was put together by a stylist.  Who knows, maybe they know something I don't! Maybe it will look good on me!  So I pull everything out and, trying to stay optimistic, try it all on.

1. Pixley Laural Sleeveless Geometric Printed Maxi Dress

Gah, NOPE. I HAD asked for a maxi dress, and I already have one in black, so I was okay with a color (and pattern) except I was not a fan of this one.  It had a weird elastic waist that caused the back to ride up and wrinkle, the tiny geometric pattern called attention to EVERY imperfection, and the combination of high collar and thick straps made it just look frumpy.  Bigger girls like me need BIG patterns, not small ones, when it comes to maxi dresses. Bad move, Stitch Fix.  And they wanted $78 for this. I'm not above paying that much for a dress, but I'd have to really love it. Nope. Verdict? Sent back.

2. Pomelo Indiana Abstract Chevron Print Mixed-Material Tee

Don't mind the lines underneath this--I threw it on over a dress to see how it would look with a black skirt.  The answer? Bad.  The heather gray reminded me of a gym shirt, and the blue patterned sleeves were just busy and weird.  The worst part?  There was FOOD on the collar.  Gross, gross, gross. I guess that's the hazard that comes with getting previously-tried-on clothes. It WAS made of jersey cotton, which I love (well noted, stylist Cynthia!) but it wasn't enough to make me love the shirt as a whole. Verdict? Sent back!

3 & 4:

Kut from the Kloth Marquis Slub Knit Dolman Sweater 
Gilli Dawn Jersey Chevron Print Maxi Skirt

This COULD have been cute...but it wasn't.  The chevron skirt is just too busy (it makes me dizzy just to look at it! Maybe I should have mentioned to them that I have vertigo?) and the waistband was very strange--it really clung to my stomach and butt and was just not flattering.  Plus, the material was really hot.  I'm always hot as it is, so this wasn't going to fly.  Verdict? Sent back!

I considered keeping the top at first, but at $48 I didn't feel it was worth the price.  It looked too casual--like something you'd throw over a bathing suit while you're at the beach--and I knew I wouldn't wear it enough to justify that price.  If I wanted something like this, I could probably find it at Target for $15...plus, I hardly EVER wear white.  I'm okay with stepping out of my comfort zone, but this sweater isn't the piece of clothing that will get me to do that. Verdict? Sent back!

Gorjana Finn Open Teardrop Stud Earrings

It seems like they usually include one accessory in each Fix, and I was bummed to get these as mine. I was counting on a great statement necklace.  But, here's the thing: Stitch Fix charges you a $20 "styling" fee no matter what, BUT, if you buy something that they send you, you get to apply that $20 to that purchase.  Basically, if you don't use it, you lose it.
These earrings, at $40, were the cheapest item in the fix.  I'd have preferred something a little more fancy (maybe a chandelier earring) but they're okay. Verdict? Kept!

All in all, I was REALLY disappointed by my first Stitch Fix. You'd think they'd try to pull out all the stops to get you the greatest Fix so that you'd stick around, but nope. It seems that a lot of people have a terrible first Fix and they have to work with their stylist in order to improve them.  I wrote my stylist a LONG letter about what I'm looking for and what works for me, so hopefully my next Fix will be a lot better.  Like Birchbox and ipsy GlamBag, I'll give these guys three tries to get it right!  (And hopefully I won't wind up with three pairs of earrings that are "just okay.")

I'll be sure to blog about my next Fix!

If you like the sound of Stitch Fix and want to give it a try for yourself, please use my referral link!